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Birth, Age, Illness and Death
Anguttaranikaya Tikanipata
Devadutavagga 4, Bhramasutta
Behold, Bhikkhu: In whatever
family the child worships the parents at home, that family has brahma;
in whatever family the child worships the parents at home, that family
has purapacariya; and in whatever family the child worships the parents
at home, that family has ahuniyya-puggala. Behold, Bhikkhu: the word brahma
is a name for parents; the word purapacariya is a name for parents; and
the word ahuniyya-puggala is a name for parents. Why is that?
Because parents have much beneficence, nourish, support, and manifest the
world to the child.
Parents who assist a child are called
brahma, purapacariya and ahuneyya-puggala for the child. Therefore
the child with panna would respect and worship parents with food, water,
bedding, perfume, bath, and cleansing the feet. Pundits would praise
the child for the care and support to the parents. The child, having
left this world, would delight in heaven.
Anguttaranikaya
Tikanipata
Puttasutta
The child who is a sappurusa, peaceful,
with gratitude (katannu-katavedi) who, upon thinking of the parents' purabaguna,
would nourish them, do things for them, obey their teachings, return their
care in accordance to their status of purabakari, and maintain the family.
The child with saddha, complete with sila, would be universally praised.
The Saddhamma
Birth, Age, Illness and Death
by Sujin Boriharnwanaket
Those with faith in the Buddha would
respectfully worship and regularly recite mantra. They must also
listen to the dhamma and examine it. The more they listen the more
they would see the Buddha's supreme panna, for the dhamma that he manifested
is the sacca-dhamma, dhamma that really exists and could be proven by all
immediately, without any preparation or any waiting in the least.
The dhamma keeps those who practice it; kusala would protect them from
dukkha and harm.
Were we born in this lifetime just
to see, hear, smell, taste, touch and think about the things see, sounds
heard, smells, tastes, things touched from birth until death?
We should know that a part of this
life is the result of kamma and the other part is the accumulations of
kamma that would bring results in the future. We should urgently
accumulate kusala since none could know whether we might be leaving this
world tomorrow.
For those who are still alive, we
should not be over-confident that we already know the dhamma. We
should listen to review the dhamma learnt and study it often, examine and
consider ourselves, remind ourselves to attend, study and listen to the
dhamma until there is panna that understands it, and practice it respectfully.
Dhamma
Discussion at the River Kwai Hotel
Kanchanaburi
(October 26, 1987)
by Sujin Boriharnwanaket

The results of kamma begin as soon
as we are born, which depends on the kind of vipaka citta that performed
the patisandhi function. If the patisandhi-citta were the result
of akusala-kamma the result would be birth in hell, as a peta, asurakaya,
dog, tiger or chicken, for example. If it were the result of a very
weak kusala-kamma, even though born a human, the akusala kamma would persecute
the person to make them physically deformed from birth, such as blind or
deaf. Having been born, we must see, hear, smell, taste, have body
sense contact and think. The instant of seeing is the result of kamma,
as are instants of hearing, smelling, tasting good or bad tastes, touching
soft, hard, cold or hot things. We could never choose. Our
bodies are also conditioned by kamma. Each rebirth only makes us
see, hear, smell, taste, touch and think about things seen, heard, smelled,
tasted, and touched from birth until death.
Each life evolves according
to hetu (causes or roots) and paccaya (conditions). Happiness, unhappiness,
gladness and sorrow all arise for a single instant and then fall away,
gone. Those who are not the arahanta must be born again after death,
but as what? If it were the result of akusala kamma they would be
born animals, in hell, as the peta, or as the asurakaya. If it were the
result of kusala kamma they would be born as humans or deva.
A part of our lives is vipaka or
the result of kamma, and the other the accumulation of kamma that will
bring results in the future. The instant we see, hear, smell, taste,
and touch are the results of kamma, while the instant of thinking is not.
There are two kinds of citta that think: good and bad thoughts. Good
thinking is to assist, to help other people, with metta (friendship) and
karuna (assistance where needed); and thoughts evolving with the attenuation
of akusala. Bad thinking is only in ways that are not useful, that
harm others if even with just words. For example when we hear something,
and without thinking, repeat it without knowing the facts, the words could
make others suffer accordingly. At that instant it is akusala.
Akusala is harmful from the very beginning of the thought; the person thinking
is more troubled by it, even before others are. Therefore we must
see the harm of bad thoughts. The Sammasam- Buddha the Arahanta teaches
us that lobha, or clinging, addiction, and attachments to everything would
bring unhappiness. Dosa is the reality that is coarse, harsh and
harmfully destructive.
All akusala are born of ignorance.
Ignorance about from which world we come from, and to which we are going
after death. Nor do we know why we are doing what we are doing each
day. That the world is in trouble is because it is the slave to feelings
of happiness that arise form receiving pleasing things. Once we get
what we want, we search for other pleasant things endlessly, without knowing
that in reality the good taste of food has gone, the beautiful sound had
appeared for just an instant and fallen away. None could ever be
the owner of anything since everything arises because of conditions and
then very rapidly fall away completely. The healthy body could become
ill, and even illnesses could be completely cured and the body be normal
again. All are impermanent.
Do not become so attached to the
instant that is the result of kusala kamma. We must also be prepared
to receive akusala vipaka unwaveringly. At present, there is so much
unhappiness because of our unsteadfastness.
To know the truth that everything
is normal, 'dhamma is normal': birth is normal, as are age, illness
and death, fortune and loss of fortune, fame and loss of fame. Was
there ever a person who has never been maligned, who has only ever been
respected at all times?
That realities arise and fall away
is dukkha, or impermanent, not lasting. The citta arises for an instant
and falls away. The next instant of citta would then arise and
fall away in ceaseless continuation. The instant of hearing sound
is not that of seeing. Panna must know according to the truth in
order not to mistake them for the self. As long as both seeing and
hearing are mixed there would be an us, the self. Realities arise
and fall away in the briefest instant, extremely rapidly. They are
realities that truly exist and are very refined, provable but only through
much listening to really understand that 'there is dukkha from birth'.
Illness is dukkha, separation from beloved things is dukkha, finding things
we do not care for is dukkha. Lobha is the cause that brings unhappiness.
To want something without getting it is dukkha, as is hoping for something
that does not turn out as one wishes. The best thing is not to hope
since everything must arise from causes and conditions anyway whether we
hope for it or not. Even the hope itself is dukkha, therefore if
you don't want to be unhappy, do not hope. We are born to do our
duties as best we can, not to hope for anything in return other than what
we have done. If the results are good, fine, but not to hope that
the results would be so good as this or that level. When we have
done the best we could we would feel comfortable, because we would not
be uneasy that we did not do so well. Therefore we must do the best
we could to prevent any discomfort. When we have done our best, whatever
happens will happen. If it turns out well, fine, if not it cannot
be helped, nor do we wish for anyone's praise. To do good hoping
for praise would again be dukkha: having gone through that much trouble,
and receiving no praise. This would be doing good in hopes of praise.
Therefore we must be unwavering whether towards blame or praise, and do
the best we can without hoping for anything no matter what happens.
We do not have to carry the world on our backs. For example those
with many siblings would not have to keep wondering whether their
parents love them or whether they love them as much as they do others.
Even if our parents do not love us but we do them, we would be happy.
Then there are friends: whether they love us or not is their affair, we
should not mind it. But we are their friends and wish them well,
then we would be happy. We do not have to worry about their bad characteristics.
However, it is our duty to develop our own panna and we could help others
as well, with our words, with our thoughts, that is, we would never be
harmful to anyone. When someone is a little angry we would know that
they are unhappy. When someone dislikes someone else we would realize
that they are surely unhappy from that dislike at that moment. Nothing
is permanent and we are not long of this world. Therefore while we
are alive we would do what is useful for both parties. We would not
give anyone unhappiness and we would not give ourselves unhappiness.
How many lifetimes had we accumulated conditions to become our persons?
Even the way we sit, lie down, stand or walk is accumulated by each of
us, and in this lifetime we also accumulated more from childhood.
While there is still kamma to give
result in this lifetime, we could not die. No matter what we do,
we could not. Generally, dukkha of the mind arises from bodily dukkha:
when there is illness, there would be worries. The illness would
be like being stabbed by the first arrow. However, mental dukkha
or worries are like the second arrow that penetrates the same wound again
so that it gets worse. No matter how much more we suffer we
could not escape the bodily dukkha, since to have a body is to have dukkha,
pain from mosquito bites. If there were no worry, the second arrow
would not exist, just the first one.
To say that worry and trouble is
the second arrow, we would clearly see that the second arrow should never
have stabbed us also. When there is bodily dukkha we should heal
it without adding the worry and trouble to it. To worry is completely
useless, long trains of thought that does not help in any way. When
there is illness we should take care of it without wasting time worrying
about it.
When we are happy we know how happiness
feels. It is the same feeling for others. When we are angry
whatever we feel is the same as when another is angry. Love and hate
is the same for everyone. Take away the names and there are only
realities that arise and fall away as specific dhatu. The citta is
a kind of dhatu. We learn about several dhatu: the earth, water,
wind and fire dhatu, but the citta is a special dhatu that is the dhatu
that experiences or knows, or the intelligence dhatu. It is an extremely
intricate dhatu. People's thoughts could branch off infinitely, because
the citta knows so much, thinks so much. Therefore we do not know
our minds well enough until we have heard more dhamma and have examined
our own citta until we unveil the exact truth of the mind.
It does not come from seeing the actions alone. Therefore there must
be sati of another level or at the instant of awareness of the state of
our own citta, but only if we were straight and true could we know this.
Those who would really study the dhamma must be straight and true so as
not to be biased and side with ourselves. The dhamma must be just,
according to reality. For example to give dana in reality is not
in hopes of compensations or affections, nor that others would return the
favor. To give dana should be with the mind that is pure and cleansed
of akusala.
The citta arises and falls away with
extreme rapidity. Now it's kusala, now akusala, never always kusala,
nor always akusala. 'Kusala' is the reality that is good, the cause
for good results. 'Akusala' is the reality that is bad, harmful, the cause
for bad results. When one has not listened to the dhamma one would
not know the truth about realities. Knowledge has many levels.
Knowledge at the level of hearing and listening to the dhamma is the knowledge
that is unable to eradicate wrong understanding or any akusala. It
is only of the level that attenuates ignorance from never having heard
the dhamma before.
When we have accumulated panna, we
would know that not to be angry is better than to be angry. If we
had not accumulated panna we would think that to be angry is better.
We must return anger. We would never be able to figure out how not
to be angry would be better. Therefore we must examine to see the
harm of akusala and see the benefits of kusala, and develop more kusala.
Consider our acquaintances: some are good hearted, generous, helpful to
others, never says anything bad of others and make others who misunderstand
able to reconcile and unite harmoniously. They perform kusala sila
or actions that are useful bodily and verbally. Others are the opposite,
with only jealousy, anger, thoughts of bad things, have bodily and verbal
improprieties, which is not to our, or the listener's, liking. The
speakers had forgotten to consider since they did not know that that moment
was akusala.
'Dana', giving, arises from time
to time. Very stingy people find it very hard to give. The
citta that gives dana is a good citta, paccaya for kusala vipaka which
is good result. The Buddha said in the Sutta, 'If anyone knew the
result of dana as I do, that person would never consume anything before
giving dana.' For example, people in our household all like good
food. If we had good food that we eat alone, it feels uncomfortable
since others would like to taste it also. Therefore if we shared
it with them from the first, both parties would be happy, not to keep it
until it is almost bad before giving it to them. We would be
giving it to them anyway; we should give while it is still good, rather
than when it is stale and old. We must think of the reverse: if we
were the receivers, the happiness we feel in receiving good things is the
same for others. Dana is a good thing, kusala, since at that moment
the citta is gentle. If the receiver were a person who did not like
us, or is an enemy, at the moment of receiving a nice thing from our friendliness,
he would feel gentle and friendly. Not that we expect that he would
love us; still we would know that dana is a way to make people gentler,
to have kusala and friendship. Even nice words arising from kusala-citta
could make people feel good, and the heart of the speaker would also be
gentle at that moment. To be a gentle, respectful person would attenuate
our ego, pride or self overestimation. Kusala does not consist of
dana alone. Dana is only kusala of the first level. If we give
them things and then trouble them with hurtful words, they would not want
things that we give, or be too hurt to take our things. If we gave
with inappropriate manners or words that discourage others from taking
our dana, it would be giving with depreciation, unwillingly. Therefore
if it were persons who knew about kusala citta, even to give to a beggar
would be with manners: instead of throwing it down, one would give with
a smile and perhaps with words or gestures that make them happy instead
of looking down on them in the least.
'Sila' is bodily or verbal
behavior, consisting of 3 things: to refrain from wrong doing; to be respectful
to those worthy of respect; and to help others. But even with dana
and sila, and assisting others, the citta is still troubled, unhappy.
Therefore there is another level of kusala, or panna to see the harm of
akusala citta. Although there might not be any physical or verbal
act of wrong doing, the citta is unhappy and worried by akusala.
Therefore panna must be accumulated to really see the harm of akusala.
The dhamma heard and considered would accumulate in the citta making it
knowable through consideration before falling asleep whether the citta
is kusala or akusala. What do we think of as we fall asleep?
If they were thoughts of lobha, they would be endless. Thinking of
dosa there would already be displeasure even when the events has not yet
arrived, but if there were thoughts about nice things to do for the benefit
of others, the heart would be happy.
How can anger be attenuated?
With the opposing dhamma, namely metta, friendship, wishing others well,
and helpfulness. The word 'metta' in Thai usage is 'mitr' or friend.
The in-depth meaning of the word friend is harmlessness towards the person
we are friends with. When we are friends with someone we would not
vie with them or even think of vying with them for power and prestige.
If we vied with anyone, at that moment there would not be friendship for
them since friends would always support friends. We could consider
whether the citta were friends with anyone at the moment, for example to
dine together as friends but to work together without friendship.
To practice dhamma in daily life
is to develop kusala.
Everyone wants happiness and hates
unhappiness, and has lobha, dosa and moha. But how many has the faith
to listen to the dhamma, develop the citta to transcend the unhappiness
arising from kilesa, since those with kilesa are unhappy? The moment
there is dukkha one should know that it is because of kilesa. More
dukkha comes from more kilesa. Less dukkha comes from less kilesa.
To have no dukkha at all we must eradicate all kilesa.
When others perform kusala, are we
glad for them? Do we anumodana (have empathic joy), or are we indifferent,
and do not. When we have died, when others do kusala we would still
be indifferent, in the same way as we feel this lifetime. But in
this life, if we see anyone doing good and we are glad for them and anumodana,
when we are dead we would anumodana when we know of people doing good.
The citta of the person who anumodana is a kusala citta. No one could
ever take some kusala and give it to another.
Anyone who anumodana, the citta would
be kusala. Just as in this life at this instant. It is only
that the next lifetime is the not yet visible, depending on the bhumi in
which we would be born in. If we were the peta or the deva we could
know and anumodana, but it would depend on whether the kusala citta would
arise to anumodana.
Nota bene: If this article
is paccaya for kusala to arise, we dedicate the kusala to M.L. Taikasem
Snidvongse and all those with somanassa citta and anumodana with the kusala.
Reminders
by Sujin Boriharnwanaket
Those with much time on their hands
often think of others' wrong.
Fights, quarrels, laments and sorrow
of entities and the beloved sankhara come with stinginess, regret and selfishness.
Love for a husband, wife, child and
relative is like a thorny grove of bamboo, entangled and unkempt.
So too is tanha, raga, saraga, exhilaration, gladness, pleasure, lust from
pleasure, lust of the citta, desire, delusion, attachment, sinking, wavering,
illusion, tanha that brings rebirth, tanha that renders involvement with
dukkha, sewn, tanha like a net, tanha like a river, tanha clinging to arammana,
love, close ties, rapt attention, ties, hope, hoping, greed in fortune,
wealth, children, life, fame, covetousness, ambition: these are kilesa
that firmly grasp, bar, hide, close, tie to dull sorrow. Desires
are love, mara's snare, the power of mara, drunk with life, forgetting
death.
Although disappointed love might
not cause marital transgressions, it could cause hatred, vengefulness to
the point of killing. Lighter than that it might cause jealousy,
worry, and dosa. When the desire is not fulfilled there could be
vengefulness and ill will, disappointment, trouble, feeling of loss, jealousy,
corrosiveness, passion, burning, according to the akusala cetana that thinks
and designs in various ways. By personal rights of ownership, there would
be trouble, worry, destructive thoughts, hurtful to others and oneself.
The more one loves and is disappointed, the more one is unhappy.
Sorrow, disappointment and desire
destroy health, render foolish and without sati, with no panna and unable
to solve problems. It makes one lack progress and development, preoccupied
about loneliness and regret, weep and lament, and always think of one's
own and of others' faults. Love makes one selfish, causing unease
for those who witness it, ill will for those involved, in relationships
with the loved one. Abnormal citta would arise and cause abnormal
actions, from words that cause pain. They create illusions about
others, right and wrong, thought turn towards lower things and hurting
oneself and others continually. One speaks impolitely, and expect
cruelty (from one's own kilesa) in the same household, when one has been
deceived in various ways.
The danger of love with tanha, mana,
affection, closeness, emotional ties to husbands, wives, children, and
relatives, servants, animals, farms, houses, properties, that we cling
to as ours, so that there are quarrels and rivalries and could give
rise to wrong actions, physical, verbal and mental, that transgress all
the sila. There could be all kinds of ill will, cruel actions and
ugly deeds, revenge and spite, through things that make us bad, proclaim
our hurt, throw tantrums, from not getting what we desire. Disappointments
in love would display ugly and fearful symptoms: red eyes and nose, lack
of fear, according to the kilesa accumulated by the individual.
The amount of lament and grumble
from the oppression of unhappiness and sorrow differ according to the persons'
habits. Sorrow arises from the particular beloved arammana.
Seeing the harm of love, there should
be metta, friendship, beneficence, helpfulness and support, the sharing
of good will towards one another.
We would never hurt even our
enemies and those who are malevolent. The malevolent would have their
own akusala, which is not ours. Those who do not receive other's
badness are those who overpower their own kilesa, always able to accept
their own status with forgiveness, and therefore full of happiness.
Withstand others' evil and their
cruel words with pleasure, have metta for them, think of whatever good
they have, forgive and feel sorry for them since they themselves would
receive the result of their own kamma. Animals show their bad sides
straightforwardly, but humans would hide, disguise, think deeply, pretend
not to know. Who would know of an impure mind? But when there
is sati one would know that it is kilesa, which only one would know oneself.
One must also teach oneself, otherwise the kilesa would accumulate as upanissaya
more and more.
If one could endure and stop anger
from arising more often with the arising of sati, and have metta towards
whose who hurt or committed transgressions towards one, afterwards one
would be less given to anger than others.
Do not cease to have saddha, continue
to develop kusala.
Anytime the chance presents itself,
develop kusala immediately, for later the opportunity might not exist.
Do not rush when looking for
a lost item, take time to look for it, rely on one's good and bad deeds
steadfastly. The kamma that caused us to have it could cause us to
lose it.
Punna is the past kusala kamma that
is like a close relative and friend that follow, assist and support us.
If we are confident in past kamma, it would make us steadfast in always
performing only kusala kamma.
Breath is a very important thing,
since life is maintained only the instant there is still breath.
Attachments to life, possessions, beauty, knowledge, status and honor all
depend on this almost imperceptible, refined matter. All things that
seem so great and important in life depend in reality on breath.
It arises so little, just from moment to moment. Once breath is gone,
all that we cling to as ours is over. Greatness and importance, love
and hate are all thoughts while there is breath.
Home is only the temporary resting
place in this world. We should not worry about it; we will be leaving
it.
Any kusala that arise from this book is dedicated
to M.L. Taikasem Snitvongse, may it be paccaya for him to anumodana in
the kusala.
The Dhamma Study and Support Group
Printed this collection taken from talks by
Ajaan Sujin Boriharnwanaket
In memory of the cremation under royal patronage
of
M.L. Taikasem Snitvongse
(B.E.2463-2536)

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